Michael Reynos headshot

Stroke

“Giving up is not in my vocabulary.”

With his wife by his side, Michael is determined to beat stroke

Chapter 1 What matters

On Sept. 25, 2020, Michael Reynos couldn’t walk. He couldn’t get out of bed without help. He couldn’t move his right hand. And he had difficulty speaking and swallowing.

Michael, 57, had had a stroke. But during those first days in a Toronto hospital, he wasn’t feeling scared or sorry for himself. He was only thinking about his wife, Gwendolyn, and the stress she was going through. He worried about her 50-minute drive each way from their home in Brampton, Ont., to be with him.

Michael’s voice cracks with emotion as he talks about having Gwendolyn by his side at the hospital. “That was a big help and comfort.”

After four days, Michael was transferred to the West Park Healthcare Centre, a rehabilitation hospital. Initially he was quarantined in his room because of the COVID-19 pandemic.

 

Chapter 2 Determination at work

At West Park, Michael was clear when his rehabilitation specialists asked him his goals. He wanted to learn to walk again and recover enough strength in his right hand to carry his own bag when he went home.

When he told occupational therapist Amie Enns he wouldn’t be satisfied until he could walk without a cane, she answered: “OK, the hard work is up to you!” That was all the motivation Michael needed to pursue his exercises and speech therapy for hours each day. After just two weeks, he was walking with a cane.

 
I can’t change what happened. But I can change tomorrow by what I do today.
Michael Reynos -  - Stroke survivor

Reducing the effects of stroke is the focus of many Heart & Stroke funded researchers. Dr. Yu Tian Wang, for example, is working to decrease brain damage caused by stroke. Scientists funded by the Heart & Stroke Partnership for Stroke Recovery are researching ways to help people like Michael recover better after stroke.

Michael’s therapists helped him fight through a few discouraging days; they assured him that periods of exhaustion are normal in the recovery process. Sure enough, he recalls, “The next day I would be feeling great.”

Michael credits his faith for helping him stay positive and focus on the future. “I can’t change what happened. But I can change tomorrow by what I do today.” Besides, he adds, moping about the stroke would have taken too much energy, and he needed every ounce for his exercises.

 

Chapter 3 Another journey begins

After six weeks at West Park, Michael was ready to go home. He could walk slowly without a cane, dress himself and shower without assistance. His legs were still weak and his right hand, although stronger, was not yet able to carry his bag.
 

 
Michael Reynos sitting in a wheelchair.
Michael worked hard to reach his rehab goals, and over six weeks learned how to walk again. 
Michael Reynos sitting across from his occupational therapist Amie Enns
Michael consults with occupational therapist Amie Enns. 
Michael and his wife Gwendolyn smiling together at  a campground.
Michael and his wife Gwendolyn.

Michael was uncertain if or when he would return to his job in housekeeping at the same hospital where his stroke was treated. But he was already eager to volunteer to help other people experiencing stroke.

Meanwhile he was determined to keep working on his rehabilitation as an outpatient, getting stronger day by day. “I’m not going to give up. It’s not in my vocabulary.”
He was grateful to the team that helped him recover this far. And he was even more grateful to be home again with Gwendolyn.

 

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